"Life's most urgent question is: what are you doing for others?"
~mlk jr.
::elizabeth::
~mlk jr.
::elizabeth::

Last week at a healing waters ceremony, I stood in a circle with 8 other people. We leaned in towards the center with our shoulders so close they touched. We closed our eyes and began walking in a circle. The support of each person was complete. As a unit we circled with faith. Eventually the concentration required to walk in this way eased and we began humming, chanting and singing. It was a truly beautiful experience…a heaven on earth experience.
When everyone is equally supported, there is no lack, no weakness, no needs unmet. When everyone is supported equally, we transcend this earthly plane to one that allows everyone to experience joy, freedom of spirit, harmony, and grace. How could this possibly be extended to include all of Humanity? It begins by releasing our fears, surrendering to Spirit, and trusting in Love one step at a time.
::lisa::
I think as a mother, this is a hard question to answer. Most days I feel like I do nothing but things for others, for my family of course. But I think I can take this question much deeper. Recently, I heard a spiritual leader talking about what we can choose to do for others, while putting our needs, wishes, wants, and desires aside. And about how powerful it is to put the needs of others before ourselves. This can be a tricky concept though. I mean, as a strong hearted woman, how will I know where the balance lies? This person was speaking of true non attachment. In way where whatever anyone else says, does, or acts cannot touch us when we are truly in connection with what is. I honestly do not think many of us are there. I would like to say that even though I know I strive to be there intentionally, I am not. My husband drives me crazy at times, as do my children, and the actions of others. Finding that sweet spot within ourselves where we can sit back and let go can be tough. In the long run, I am not sure if we can truly answer the question of what we are doing for others until we are very in tune with what we do within ourselves and learn to let go of everything. This may be different than putting ourselves first. Instead it could be putting the needs of others first, while taking the time to go within ourselves and nurture the feelings that arise until they shine peace.
An interesting thought. I believe that we cannot offer ourselves until we take care of the "I" first. If the "I" is not whole, damaged or broken, then what can we offer, but a poor hand to others. If we take care of ourselves first, then we can offer our best to others. If we are not our best, then we cannot give our best.
ReplyDeleteI agree with kkrige. Altruism shouldn't become abnegation of ourself. I also beleive that any feeling is worth living as it's what's making us alive. I could elaborate but I'm typing with one hand... :)
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